OCTOBER 1, 2021
One of the most important words in our world today is the word “Commitment.” Merriam Webster defines “Commitment” as “an agreement or pledge to do something in the future.” Synonyms include allegiance, attachment, dedication, devotedness, faith, fidelity, loyalty, steadfastness and constancy. WOW! Lots of words involved just to make a commitment. Maybe that is why many of us fail to ever make a true commitment to anything. (A “fear” of commitment) Our remarks today relate to YOUR commitments and how you honor them. Of course, there are things that are not in your control. But making a commitment is paramount in establishing and developing good relationships in our faith, our families, and our careers.
Commitment should evoke a strong sense of intention and focus. Our intentions might be good but our focus may be lacking when we go and make commitments. Often, our commitments are typically accompanied by a statement of purpose or a plan of action. Are you serious about your commitments or are you just going along for the ride in life? Life is FULL of commitments and pledges. Many are financial in the business world but more importantly, commitments should be about relationships with others. You have a choice. Are you able to make a commitment to another person or are you only committed to yourself? Marriage is one of the most important commitments a person can make in life and is often taken for granted that, “things will work out by themselves if we just keep our heads down and do our jobs.” Write them down, look at them, and practice YOUR commitments.
As you think about your personal commitments, whether they are with your faith, with your spouse and family, or in your career, be someone that people can count on to follow through on your commitments. When I think of the word commitment, I also think of the word “Trust.” Building trust can be hard for those who have not learned commitment. Here are ten of the most effective ways to build trust;
- Value long term relationships because trust requires long term thinking and not just a quick one and done. Before you act, think about how it impacts your future.
- Be honest: (With yourself and with others) Developing a reputation as someone who is dishonest is one of the fastest ways to erode trust.
- Honor your commitments: If you make a promise, follow through on it. Avoid making promises that you might not be able to keep.
- Admit when you are wrong: People don’t like to hear excuses. If you are incorrect about something, own up to it. (Be First)
- Communicate effectively: Try your best to communicate in a way that doesn’t leave room for misinterpretation. (Be Wise)
- Be vulnerable: Be open about your emotions. It shows that you care. But don’t keep dwelling on it. Move forward rather than letting your fears of the past control you.
- Be helpful: If you genuinely a good person, do something for others not expecting anything in return. It is good for the soul. (Be Daring)
- Show people that you care: People naturally trust you more if they feel like you’re truly interested in them. It is always the little things that matter. (Be Good)
- Stand up for what’s right: Again, people respect honesty. Good leaders value insights and opinions of others. Don’t sacrifice your values and what you believe just to appease others, just to get ahead. (Be Different)
- Be transparent: As long as you can explain what you’re doing and why you’re doing it, most people will be able to understand.
When you think of the word “Commitment,” think of our Elevator Guy Slogan; “Be Wise, Be Daring, Be First, Be Good, and Be Different.” When you make a commitment, be intentional about meeting and exceeding your commitments. Write them down on paper and in your heart. It will be the RIGHT thing to do in any situation.
Elevator Guy
Quote for the Day: “Unless a commitment is made there are only promises and hopes, but no plans.” Peter Drucker