AUGUST 4, 2023
Stephen R. Covey’s two great books, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” and “The 8th Habit” are great reference material in getting to know who you are, where you are going and what kind of people you are taking along with you in your own journey of life. If you are interested at all in growing as a person, these are great reads. Once you have read them, keep them handy for reference as some of us are just slower learners and need that constant repetition and reminder in our lives.
“The 8th Habit,” Covey’s latest book, inspires us to find our voice and then inspire others to find theirs. Voice is Covey’s code for “Unique Personal Significance.” We all seek to be significant but don’t realize we are already significant at something. Many of you reading these remarks may not realize how significant you really are unless you get out of yourself and into others. Those who inspire others to find their voice, are the leaders needed now and for the future according to Covey. Here is a brief synopsis of the 8 Habits with positive affirmations.
Habit 1: Be Proactive. I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes, and moods. I don’t blame others for my wrong action. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind. I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my organization and contribute to its mission and vision. I bring value to others.
Habit 3: Put first things first. I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I shouldn’t do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.
Habit 4: Think Win/Win. I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others’ Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.
Habit 5: Seek first to understand, then to be understood. I listen to other people’s feelings. I try to see things from their point of view. I listen to others without interrupting. I listen with my ears, my eyes, and my heart. I am confident in voicing my ideas.
Habit 6: Synergize. I value other people’s strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people’s ideas to solve problems.
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw. I take care of my body by eating right, exercising, and getting good sleep. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at work. I spend time with family and friends. I take time to find meaningful ways to help others. I have balance in my life.
Habit 8: Find your Voice….and inspire others to find theirs.
Practice these habits with your heart rather than from the head, and your life might just change for the better.
Elevator Guy
Quote for the Day: “Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.” Aristotle